Most men see women as being completely different from them and therefore almost impossible to understand — much less please. Every woman is different and so is every man. There is no perfect formula to create the ideal male because it is a case by case basis. Some women may seek adventure and others may want a large family with a man that can provide. Nevertheless, most women can agree that they ALL want these six qualities in a man.
HARDWORK AND AMBITION: Women admire hard work and ambition in their men. No woman wants a man who lies around all day, doing nothing, and if you’re going to do something, do it diligently. Women want a man who is always trying to better his present status; someone who’s willing to try out new things and explore new territories—someone who aims high, and puts in an effort to earn a living. Ambition is hope, women love hope. And while you’re showing your ambitiousness, don’t get over-ambitious because this can make you seem arrogant and proud…women hate pride.
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INTELLIGENCE AND SMARTNESS: Sometimes, you see a guy who’s all nerdy, but somehow, still manages to get all the girls flocking around him, and you wonder what works for him. The truth is, women are naturally attracted to men who they perceive as intelligent and smart; men who are creative, who can think up awesome ideas in a split second. Women want a man who can help them solve puzzles, not a man they have to help solve puzzles. A smart man knows an opportunity when he sees one, and knows when to make a move. Women don’t like dullards, they find them irritating.
ATTENTION AND CARE: You know how babies cry and feel uncomfortable when you leave them alone? That’s how women feel when you don’t show them enough care and attention. They love to be pampered and cared for; they need someone they can share a joke with; the kind of man who cares enough to notice when they’re in a bad mood or in a good mood. They also enjoy being spoiled; sometimes, they just want you to give them a thrilling experience, like cooking for them…you know; something to make them feel loved and adored.
HONESTY AND TRUST: Women like truthfulness. If you’re going to be in her life, then, you have to keep it real with her. Always say it to her like it is; don’t tell her it’s ‘A’ when it’s actually ‘B’—when you do that, she would lose faith in you, and if she doesn’t have faith in you, there is no trust. Women want reliability; sometimes, a man finds himself in a situation where he needs to tell a lie to make everything seem right, but this is wrong; it’s better you find a way to tell her the truth because if you lie and she finds out (which they almost always do), she’ll be heartbroken, devastated and disappointed. Always keep it real and open with your woman, that way, she feels safe about the relationship.
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FINANCIAL SECURITY: Women want to feel financially secure when they’re in a relationship with you. For some, it’s because they have needs that have to be met, you know—change their weaves, change their wardrobe, flex the latest gadgets, while to some others, it’s not about their needs; they can actually take care of those needs, but they need their man to be financially healthy because it assures them he’s man enough, someone who can match their financial standards, not a passive male who they’ll have to cater for. For these kinds of women, it’s about pride and status.
DECENCY: Decency implies being loving, caring, honest, reliable, and respectful—he is all the best things. Women want that from their man, a man who would respect them enough not to lie or cheat on them.
SENSE OF HUMOR: A man that can make you laugh is the most attractive quality by far. Who doesn’t love to laugh? Life is so serious sometimes you need a partner that can keep you laughing, even through the difficult times.