Hey guys, Valentine’s Day is here and there are a few things you need to know before then, it will do you a whole lot of good.
First is what is called, Arousal Concordance: you should know that even if you’re mentally aroused, your body may not match up with you. Men only get erection 50% of the time that they are aroused. For a woman, it is 10%. The amount of lubrication your body produces is how aroused you can be. So if your body does not align with how you feel, you might think there is something wrong with you. But you should know it’s totally normal.
Secondly, not experiencing orgasm from penetration is completely normal. We are just limited by factors out of our control.
Lastly, desire comes from context. You might be with someone whom you love but if you’re not in the mood or if you’re not sexually aroused, it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you.