Who is a lady? And how should a lady act? Ladies are women that know how to carry themselves with poise and class. It doesn’t matter how old you are, the size of your purse or the attractiveness of your facial or body features! A lady is a female who is well groomed and very presentable.
It is not enough to wear fashionable clothes, know the coolest hangouts and have everything money can buy. How do you carry yourself?
Some things were obviously cute when you were younger but they are no longer cute and you can’t get away with most of those things because you need to grow up.
If you want to be treated like a lady, you have to act like one – a grown up who should be taken seriously, and you need to start doing things differently.
To be a classy lady, you need to keep a lot of things in check and constantly work on yourselves to be better all the time. Below are some un-lady-like behaviors every lady that should drop.
Wearing skimpy clothes: At some point in your life, this might have seemed OK but when you want to land yourself a career and a good man, you should reserve these outfits for night outings and choose other modest clothing for everything else.
Cussing: Cussing portrays you as being kind of trashy, a lady is supposed to have some poise and patience, so it’s best if you drop these nasty words or just say them in your head.
Posting trashy selfies: The selfie trend is not going away anytime soon, and there is no reason why you shouldn’t it be able to put yours on your Facebook page, no matter your age but if you want to be seen as a classy lady, keep the drunken selfies, such as the ones where you aren’t it wearing much clothing and similar poses, to yourself and for the love of all that is good, quit with the duck face, it is not at all ladylike.
Excessive drinking: It is totally fun to go out and have a few drinks with the girls but no lady looks classy when she is falling down drunk, plus, you say and do things that you otherwise wouldn’t it and that can make for some embarrassing mornings after. It is going to be hard to face your co-workers or your date from the night before if you got sloppy drunk and did something stupid. Have your glass of wine, but keep it in check now that you are a lady.
Nose picking: In that moment where you think no one is watching, you slip a well trimmed and polished fingernail into your nostril and you begin to pick your nose. Sometimes you draw out the mucus and rub it under the table, that is very scary, unhygienic and unladylike. Learn to clean your nostrils while bathing, and learn to go around with tissue papers or handkerchiefs so that when your nose begins to itch, you could excuse yourself and go to the ‘ladies’ and do your thing neatly. Even if you can’t go to the bathroom, make sure you always use a hanky or tissue when picking your nose.
How do you chew: How do you chew your gum? How do you chew anything crunchy?, close your mouth while chewing gum or hard snacks to avoid distracting others with that sound. Be classy!